PaprikaTown: good manners

Sunday, 30 October 2011

What's special about Hungary?

This is a civil society. The civility of Hungarians is one of the first characteristics that impressed me.

Pass any Hungarian in an enclosed space – a stairwell or a lift – and you'll receive a greeting 'Good day'. Enter any small shop and you'll receive the same greeting from the shopkeeper, plus 'How can I help you?' and on leaving 'Goodbye'. Travel on a tram and you'll soon witness a teenager – without prompting – keenly give up their seat to an elderly person.

Hungarians are aware of one another and of their responsibilities to each other. The social interplay may be a ritual, but a Hungarian would feel uncomfortable if the proper acknowledgements weren't made.

I have no doubt this dignified display of human respect has a long and ancient history, like the Hungarians themselves. For centuries the passive victims of rule by foreign forces, Magyars have nevertheless retained a common filial bond, maintained not least through their very individual language.

Of course, there are paradoxes, as in any society. One might expect the characteristics I've described to be reflected in a generously liberal political outlook. Yet the current government – elected with a very large majority – delights in campaigning as 'anti-liberal'.

I'm still too ignorant of Hungarian politics to express a personal view – which might be mixed. But, in this case, Hungary's history surely comes into play. A strong, national-minded government, sceptical of the dilution of Hungarian values by 'internationalists' or 'liberals', is precisely what Hungary has been denied over hundreds of years.

There is opposition too, naturally. In fact, civic action in the form of street demonstrations takes place almost weekly in Budapest. These are well-coralled demonstrations, but also generally good-natured, and often accompanied by a mobile DJ to maintain noise volume and good spirits.

Hungary faces a struggle over several years to overcome a difficult economic situation. There will be dissent over 'anti-liberal' measures designed to address the country's debts. But underlying the to and fro of politics, it seems to me, there remains an instinctive commitment to civil society. Times are tough, and Hungarians have no option but to submit to this reality. But the common dignity and resilience of this community is what I believe will eventually pull Hungary through. This is a very civil society.  

Observant readers will note I've suggested only one characteristic that makes Hungary 'special' (and apologies for going 'political'). This leaves endless scope for considering many more. 
So what makes Hungary special for you?

 

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